Relation with parents
India and World
It not something hidden from the World or resident of India that there are many different ways to handle your child and give them the values to live their life on. They are the first teacher of your life. They teach you how to walk? How to talk? Feed you. Shower unimaginable love and go to any extent jus to see you Happy.
As the Generations are changing the two way love is also taking new path with different influence.
Communication is the key but earlier in 1990s the less communication and more of teaching and guidance kept every kid in their best to the respect and love their parents.
This new age parenting lessons are creating weaker mindset of children they are more dependent on parents than the 1990s kids.
Earlier if you were born before year 2000, you might have the idea that parents were not running everywhere behind their children, the kids those days were self exploring and very adaptive to new environment and people, open to changes and learning. Nowadays kids are accompanied by their parents even to their schools, the dependency is too much.
Over dependency at early age creating gap between parents and kids
Growing up kids want privacy and less parent involvement. For example, they need space to decide things. But this can push them apart. Still, parents want to help by being close. Yet, too much can bother kids. Maintaining the balance is important. Kids are naïve but parents need to understand.
Also for kids, they should know that, your parents are the only one who will be there for you in any situation
Staying together as a Family keep you strong and better backed up for world challenges. for Kids respect your Parent they are the one shielding you from anything and everything bad.
Not every time the child is wrong; in fact, sometimes the parents are the ones at fault. For example, they don’t always love or take good care of their child. However, this doesn’t mean the child is always perfect. Instead, parents might have their own problems, like not paying attention. So, we need to look at both sides. Plus, fixing these issues can make the family closer. In short, who’s to blame depends on what’s happening.
What is the full form of parent?
P- is for patience
A- is for attentive
R- is for responsible
E- is for encouraging
N- is for nurturing
Good relation with parents
A good relationship with parents really matters for a child’s growth and calm mind. However, bad parenting can cause problems between them. For instance, if parents don’t care or help, it hurts their connection. Similarly, ignoring the child or being mean can confuse things. Thus, kind parenting builds trust and joy. Conversely, unkind actions push the child away. Ultimately, how parents behave affects the child a lot.
First, talk to them about what’s on your mind.
Then, hear what they say too.
Next, be nice even if you don’t agree.
Also, hang out with them sometimes.
After that, let them have some space.
Lastly, wait—it gets better slowly.
